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Sunday, October 20, 2013

To Err Is Human, To Forgive Is Divine


ASSAALAMUALAIKUM WARAHMATULLAHI WABARAKAATUH AHLAN WASAHLAN WA MARHABAN BIKUM. 

i do think that i have written for few times in my blog that i am a very sensitive person and honestly i dont forgive as easily as i err. Yeaah, it is hard to be me, to feel guilty for not being able to forgive but i do think that i dont forgive for a reason. there must be a reason for someone not being able to do something they really want to do even they dont know what they are. I do want to forgive. :'(

if forgiveness does not give us calmness, think for another name. 

To err is human, To forgive is divine. a new phrase told by my lectures. it is very much related to our nature as human beings. nobody is perfect, but there is always an enormous room for improvements. To err is just me as i err a lot even in a minute but to forgive, i cant say anything bout it coz i do think forgiving is not about saying;

'i forgive you'
'it is ok'
'you are forgiven'

for me, it is more than that. forgiving somebody should come along with honesty, with sincerity which i am really lacking. what is the purpose of forgiving if we still say bad things about that person? why do i forgive when i keep thinking about what had happened? should i forgive when i keep digging the history once new problems arise? but you! you keep accusing when you are not forgiven and it is disgusting. eh, tetiba -.-'

once someone apologizing, dont you think that you can detect the honesty in his apology? the way he or she opologizes shows everything and it determines and decides whether you are going to forgive him or her or not. you know that deep inside you want to forgive them but you dont and you dont know why. really? confirmed! you are just like me. kih3

once we err, be determined not to repeat. at least, we have the intention to be better even though there is a huge possibility for us to repeat it. that is why, ALLAH has never restricted specific time for us to do taubat. it is a nature but we have our mind and heart. we can think, change, and do something with the flaws occurred in our life. believe me, this is a fact.

once we apologize, keep apologizing till we are forgiven, or at least to the extent that we know we have tried our best. a problem with those who apologize, they get angry when they are not forgiven and stop at the first trial. it gets worse when things are exposed on social media. for me, things dont work that way coz it shows dishonesty, insincerity. :)

once we forgive, forgive with an open heart that you never want to talk about what had happened anymore. once we forgive, we should never bring things back because the effects will be worse than the first time it happened. At least try to avoid for the same thing to happen so that we can feel that we actually have given a forgiveness with sincerity, no more grudge, no more revenge. everything should be considered fine and back to normal. it is hard but still can be done.

ps- ia berasal dengan ikhlas, berakhir dengan ikhlas, kerana hati terluka yang tiada terubat, malah ditabur garam tambah asam limau tak lupa jugak cuka. deng!!!!

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23 comments:

  1. nak memaafkan tu a bit hard but i never give up to be seorang yg pemaaf :)

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    1. i think i do forgive but i give forgiveness that lacks of sincerity which i personally dont consider as forgiveness.. i dont know,, hahaha

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  2. i'm not kinda person yang smpan dalam dalam, senang ctr, cepat memaafkan.. :)

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    1. this is my daaaarkkk sideeeee.. huhuu,, doakan saya pun akan jadi cam awak gak k :)

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  3. rasa lega bila dapat memaafkan orang..it put my mind at ease..

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    1. yeahhh... it puts mine at ease too but am too afraid to forgive sebab takut berulang lagi,, huhuu

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  4. Sebagaimana kia mahu orang terima kita, sebegitu juga perasaan org lain terhadap kita. benci pastinya akan menarik benci. Jadi, sayangilah dan maafkanlah andai mahu menyayangi seikhlas hati

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  5. take your time..dont push push poeple la...bleh translate tak cikgu..hahaha

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  6. buat ape pun kena ikhlas even memaafkan orang..

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  7. kdg kdg its easy to forgive but hard to forget kann

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  8. Bagi saya belajar dulu memaafkan orang. Lama-lama ikhlas itu akan hadir. InshaAllah.

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  9. depends besar mana salah orang tu...namee pun kalau kena teruk sgt susah nak maafkan betul2. kata maaf tp0 hati masih sakit. hewheww. hhehee

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  10. baca satu-satu entry ni..hahaha..memaafkan orang adalah lebih mulia..=)

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